DeutschesFachbuch.de : No Waves Without the Ocean Experiences and Thoughts Von Bert Hellinger

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Table of contents
About this book. 14
Translators' notes. 17
The path of awareness. 18
Introduction. 18
Truth. 18
Dialectic. 19
Perception and thinking. 20
The phenomenological path of awareness. 21
Insight through restraint. 23
Scientific and phenomenological psychotherapy. 23
The wider view. 25
The whole. 26
The fountain. 27
Hearing and seeing. 28
Insight and action. 29
Perception and doubt. 29
Patterns of thought and fate. 30
Interrupting the pattern. 31
Light and darkness. 31
Master and pupil. 32
Insight and enlightenment. 32
The night of the soul. 32
Wisdom. 33
Feelings. 34
Introduction. 34
Differentiation of feelings. 34
Meta-feelings. 36
Rage, despair, love. 37
Hate. 38
The soul. 39
Introduction. 39
The extension of the soul. 39
The path. 40
Orders of the soul. 40
Illness and the soul. 41
Illness, the soul and the "I".42
Dimensions of the soul. 44
The purpose of life. 47
Twins. 47
Service. 48
Remembrance of Auschwitz. 49
Remembrance that concludes and unites. 51
Murderers are drawn to their victims. 52
Peace for perpetrator and victim. 53
Good and evil. 53
Playing the hero without taking risks. 54
Respecting the soul. 54
Responding to the soul's message. 56
Hygiene of the soul. 56
Detachment. 56
The process of learning can't do justice to the richness of the soul. 57
Fate. 58
Accepting and agreeing to life. 68
Introduction. 68
Happiness. 68
Signposts to happiness. 68
The way of happiness. 69
Self-realization and completeness. 69
Healing and health. 70
The limits of the conscience. 71
Guilt and innocence. 74
Peace. 75
Surviving survival. 75
Acceptance without presumption. 76
Soldiers and war. 76
Agreeing to one's culture and country. 77
Blessing in disguise. 78
Beginning life again after being saved. 78
Gratitude. 79
Balance. 79
Spiritual forgetting. 80
The gift. 81
Being and time. 81
Fullness. 81
Men and women. 84
Introduction. 84
Men and women. 84
Giving and taking in the couple relationship. 85
Exchange and love. 85
The future. 86
Animus and anima. 86
Masculine and feminine. 86
Full strength. 86
The kiss. 87
Unity and difference. 88
How love succeeds. 88
Looking to something new. 89
The couple relationship takes priority over parenthood. 90
The orders in a family of mixed cultures. 90
Earlier partners are represented by children. 93
Children are influenced by unacknowledged relationships. 94
Marriage between partners of different cultures. 94
Marriage with a twin. 95
Great happiness requires courage. 96
Happiness and unhappiness. 96
Letting love grow. 96
The true worth. 97
Images of love. 97
Fear and fascination. 97
Fear of love. 98
Intimacy. 98
The mother-role and the father-role between couples. 99
Hearing and seeing in the couple relationship. 99
Opinion and observation. 99
Triumph and jealousy. 100
Exacting revenge with love. 100
A new beginning. 100
Letting go. 101
Separation. 102
Separating with humility. 102
The pain of separation. 103
Happiness and greatness. 103
Sterilisation and the couple relationship. 103
The ordinary life. 104
Love in our time. 105
Orders in the family. 115
Introduction. 115
The right to belong. 115
Who belongs to the family system. 115
Good and evil in the family. 116
Perfection. 117
Accepting one's parents. 117
Bowing before one's parents. 118
Peace through humility. 118
Father and child. 119
Parents themselves are encompassed by life. 119
Guilt and grandiosity. 119
The orders of love between parents and children. 121
Childlike love. 121
Love and power. 122
Love and powerlessness. 122
Power struggles. 122
The blessing. 123
Caring for elderly parents. 123
Children who die young. 124
The living and the dead. 124
The death of a child. 125
Reproach as a substitute for grief. 125
Idealization as a substitute for grief. 126
Grieving presumptuously and grieving with humility. 126
Using the names of the dead. 127
The dead who are unacknowledged. 127
Unborn children in the family. 127
Aborted child and their siblings. 128
The giving away of children. 129
Atonement. 130
Family secrets. 130
Disability in the family. 131
The order of origin. 135
A devil child. 135
Taking it out on a substitute. 135
When would a divorced father be willing to care for his children?136
Honouring the parents. 136
Honour or submission. 136
Order and love. 137
About love and life. 138
When a parent dies early. 138
The lion. 138
How to honour parents who have died. 139
Hurt feelings. 139
Arrogance. 140
The pain of separation. 140
The farewell. 140
Order in harmony. 141
Sickness and healing in families. 142
Introduction. 142
Love that leads to illness and love that heals. 142
Love's hidden symmetry. 144
The path to reorientation. 148
Psychotherapy and medicine. 149
Illness and order. 150
Illness as a healing process for the soul. 150
Cancer. 150
Anorexia and bulimia. 154
Overeating and fasting. 154
Compulsive eating. 155
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